News & Updates

Since Bryan returned to rehab we have seen improvements. His memory, while often times off, is incredible for his type of injury. His answers are sometimes wrong, but the fact that they are right most of the time is amazing. Sometimes, we see a difference in his personality but other times, his old self shines through. While physical therapy and occupational therapy are very difficult for him and exhausts him, his determination is great to see. He can only do about 3 hours of PT and OT a day, spread out, but he goes through the motions and his therapists all report there’s definitely a change in his stiffness and his ability to move. He complains about a lot of pain, sometimes being 10 out of 10. Doctors say it’s probably due to his extra bone growth so they work around that pain cautiously. He’s also able to stay in his wheelchair longer now without getting tired so that means more trips outside, although, gasp…he seems to like the shade!!!
In speech therapy they have been working on reading (he reads great for the most part!) and basic math skills. 7 x 3? Yeah…he knew the answer!

Before, when we said his old personality comes through, we thought we would share some examples. One day, when his speech therapist was working with him, the TV was on and she noticed Bry wasn’t paying too much attention. So, she asked what he was watching. On the TV was a female news reporter and Bryan said, “Ohhh, she’s hot.” Yep. That’s our Bryan. We made a CD of the music from this site to play for him. The other day Home Sweet Home came on and he mouthed the words while moving his head to the beat. One day one of his nurses came in and said, “Heeeeyyy Bryan!!” Bry said, “Heeeeyyy, what’s goin’ on?” He then got the biggest smile we’ve seen to date (even the biggest smile is about a half smile, but still). The other night when Bonnie was there she was saying she was leaving and he said ok. He closed his eyes and about two seconds later opened them and said, “Why are you still there?” She said, “Because it’s only been a couple of seconds, geez,” and he said, “Oh.” Bonnie also asked if he wanted her to shave his head or if he wanted hair and he said, “Uuhhh, I want hair.”

We try and keep updates positive with all the good things going on with Bryan, however we don’t want to give a skewed impression of his recovery. Getting to even this point has been a very long process and “this point” still weighs heavy on our hearts as we see him have difficulty with even the easiest movements such as moving his arm. The doctors are very happy with how far his brain has come, but his body has yet to catch up. He now has kidney stones, extra bone growths, blood clots and is still very stiff. Bryan has made it this far by determination, power of prayers, amazing doctors and support from you all. We’ve made it this far with the love of each other, our family and friends, and of course, all of you. We have a great support system to lean on and couldn’t have made it these past 7 months without it. There’s a group, the Bryan Brigade. This video was made by a member to support Bryan and we just had to share it. With all of this support from everyone…how do we even say thank you?


# andrea
Monday, October 31, 2011 12:03 AM
bless you for sharing Bryan's progress with all of us! It's so exciting to know he's entered this next chapter of healing... but it's also easy to see how these days can be tough ones~ the Stow Family is one of the most impressive, brave, & devoted families ever! i am here for you yesterday, today, & forever onward~ xxxooo
# Catherine from San Francisco
Monday, October 31, 2011 12:21 AM
Dear Stow Family,
You and Bryan are all an inspiration to us all. I know there are days when it is so very hard, but then there are those days that energizes the hope and strength in each one of you. May there be more energized days than hard days ahead and know that you are all loved and in our prayers every night.
God Bless you all,
A Very Devoted Bryan Brigade Member xoxoxoxoxoxo
# Nancy S.
Monday, October 31, 2011 1:21 AM
I am so happy to hear how far Bryan has come...Yet he still has a long way to being his perfect self which I know he will..Thoughts and Prayers are always being said for the Stow family and of course for Bryan....May God keep bringing strength to you....
Another member of Bryan's Brigade.....
# Susan Creger
Monday, October 31, 2011 10:08 AM
Wow... What a beautiful song for a AWESOME update!!!!♫♫♪♪ Bry.. you are loved sooo much and The support is amazing! Keep going strong Bryan you will get thru this!! We all wish you the best and the prayers are strong!! Thinking of you daily.. From Thornton,Colorado..
# Angie
Monday, October 31, 2011 11:51 AM
Everytime I read an update I get tears in my eyes. I can feel all the love you have for Bryan coming out in your words. How hard it must be to stay as positive as you are and you all inspire me. I have had a rough few weeks with losing some of my loved ones but when I come here and read your updates it helps me to keep things in perspective and count all my blessings. I too have a WONDERFUL loving family and AWESOME friends and thank you for helping to remember.

I am sending continued prayers for Bryan and you all!!! It hasn't been an easy road but I pray that he continues to travel forward on it!! Love and hugs to you all!! <3
Raleigh, NC
# Rachel C.
Monday, October 31, 2011 12:07 PM
Good morning Stow family and happy halloween! I know you look forward to the day when Bryan can take his kids out trick or treating again and do all the normal things he used to.. don't lose hope, we're here for you and we're praying for you and Bryan and your whole family every step of the way. There are times i'm certain that are frustrating, or that try your spirit, that's when you come right here and feel our love and support and dedication to seeing this thing through.

Keep your heads up and know that we are all behind you. We have faith that all things will happen in the time that they are suppossed to happen...

p.s. ... i LOVE that Bryan still wants to make sure he has hair... now you know that's a GREAT sign... :)
# Mary Camera
Monday, October 31, 2011 12:20 PM
Still keeping updated, still praying daily. And still believing.
(Thumbs up for hot chicks!!)
Love from Santa Cruz
# Julie Quesada
Monday, October 31, 2011 1:25 PM
Hi Stow Family,

Once again... you are amazing! The love you have for one another is so beautiful. I'm so glad to hear that Bryan is making progress with your love and support keeping him going. I continue to pray for all of you and appreciate you keeping us posted on his condition.

God Bless,
Julie Q
# Claussen's Corner
Monday, October 31, 2011 4:09 PM
I think 3 hours of PT and OT, spread out during the day is very triumphant! It makes me tired just thinking about it. Sounds like all the precautions are there in his recovery and it really sounds like he's doing remarkably well, considering the circumstances. He's lucky to have such a wonderful and loving family. All of us here are thinking of all of you there.
With love,
Claussen's Corner
Angels Camp
# Paulio
Monday, October 31, 2011 4:41 PM
Hello Bryan & family, how nice to see an update. Happy Halloween to you guys and I hope today brings Bryan more treats than tricks.

One of the reasons Bryan's incident has affected me so profoundly is because it really could have happened to anyone. Out of nearly 50,000 people at Dodger Stadium on opening day, Bryan somehow drew the unluckiest card. Since then, with your regular updates, we've all seen just how narrowly Bryan escaped a mortal fate. As a person without religious faith like so many others here, I need to find inspiration in life from the people in this world. That's not always easy to do, especially when you read about the two cowards who blindsided Bryan and his friends in a dimly-lit parking lot. But the flipside is being 'introduced' to a beautiful group of human beings. I include a lot of people in that group: not just the Stow family, but all the doctors and caregivers who treated Bryan; the people at AMR who transported him; the Giants players who came to see him and who helped defray some of his expenses or those of his children (here's looking at you, Mr. Barry Bonds); and all the people who follow Bryan's saga on facebook or here on this site.

And that's why I love to see a, how to put this, a well-rounded update like this latest one. 10/10 pain? Kidney stones? Bone pain? It takes my breath away... I mean, I had a kidney stone once. It took a couple weeks to pass, resulted in 10/10 pain for several days, and was only resolved by a visit to the ER and surgery the next day. But then it was all over, and I quickly went back to my life. To imagine Bryan having to deal with similar pain and discomfort while also dealing with all of his other serious medical conditions and present limitations... well, words really aren't sufficient. Bryan is enduring more than most of us are ever likely to face, even in our worst hours. So I tip my cap to you once again, Mr. Bryan Stow. And Stow family, you know that you have my sympathies... no one wants to see a family member in pain and be unable to do much of anything to ameliorate it. And here's a last shout-out to all you folks who've posted your stories about TBIs or family members who endured TBIs. Before this happened to Bryan, I had no idea about how much a person could endure and still survive. And that's why humanity still inspires me, for all its faults.
# Mona
Monday, October 31, 2011 5:40 PM
Happy Halloween to Bryan and Family, May today indeed bring a whole lot of treats and happy surprises. Heck, maybe a trick or two from Bryan as a sign of love and that he is indeed (always will be) Bryan. Loved the hair and tv comments. I continue to be in awe of all of your strength and courage. Many years ago, I was a Dodgers fan. That was back when the team was a team in the truest sense of the word and actually cared about each other and their fans. Sadly that no longer seems to be the case. I honestly only watch parts of games for nostalgia and to hear the great Vin Scully. My point in sharing that was I may not be a true fan of the Giants team but I am a huge fan of their character toward your family. Yeah, pun intended, I have become a "Giant" virtual fan of Bryan and all of yours, his family. Peace, love, and Halloween magic.
# snausage
Monday, October 31, 2011 9:38 PM
My friend and I have an annual Halloween tradition of strolling down 24th street from Mission to the end, looking at altars in shop windows, admiring the orange bunches of marigolds, enjoying a torta at Torta Gordo, seeing the new murals that have been created since last year. My friend had her black and orange "Dia de Los Gigantes" tshirt on, which is a brilliant combination of Muertos and Giants (the traditional skull sporting a Giants' cap).

Why am I telling you this? This year (our 16th of doing "The Stroll") was different because I was wearing my Stow band. And it is black and orange and I have worn it since I received it months ago...and it just seemed perfect, thinking of fall and Halloween and the Giants and Bryan.

So many of us are in the Brigade!

It is gratifying to read that it helps you in any small or large way that we are out here.

I have to say that I was thrilled reading an LA Times story that when news that Bryan had first spoken reached the Dodger players and coaches, they reacted like electricity had struck them....they were so happy. That made me smile a little. A lot, actually.

Keep it going, Stows. You're doing great!

Jan from San Fran
# snausage
Monday, October 31, 2011 10:21 PM
small correction: the wonderful restaurant is "La Torta Gorda" (no, I'm not related to anyone there).
# carmen
Wednesday, November 02, 2011 8:55 AM
glad to see the updates..continue getting better...wishing you the fastest recuperation possible...our thoughts and prayers always with you...
# Deb
Wednesday, November 02, 2011 12:03 PM
Again, thanks for the wonderful updates. When I was saying my prayers the other night I couldn't help but think about what an unbelievable family you Stow's are. Along with the many prayers, the Dr's and nurses, it has been the strength of you - Dave, Ann, Erin, and Bonnie who have made such a tremendous difference in Bryan's recovery by being there by his side and cheering him on.

I can't begin to imagine how stiff and the pain Bryan is in - heck after sitting at my desk for an hour or 2 I'm sore, I can't begin to imagine after being in bed for so many months. If anyone can pull through, it's Bryan.

God Bless all of you - you are truly an inspiration to all.
# Rita S. Flores
Wednesday, November 02, 2011 3:31 PM
Wow, thank you again for the updates, I truly look forward to them. My continued prayers for your amazing family. I still hold on to the hugs I got from Bonnie&Erin when I met you at the prayer vigil at USC-County Hospital. Stay Strong & May God Bless you always!
Rita S. Flores
East Los Angeles, CA
# Ramona Dahl
Wednesday, November 02, 2011 9:33 PM
I am moved to tears by this news that Bryan wrote his name. My brother was senselessly beaten by some lowlife two years ago. It was one of the lowest points in my life, and though he still suffers from some speech problems, he is a functioning and productive human being. When I saw Bryan's name on the piece of paper, I was reminded of my brother and when he did the same thing. Bryan is on my prayer list, and will continue to be, as will the family. May the blessings of our Lord rain down on all of you--for strength, for guidance, for patience.
# Brandon
Thursday, November 03, 2011 5:54 PM
This is fantastic news! I am so glad to hear that Bryan has written his name. I'm positive that everyone around the US keeps praying for progress in his recovery. You guys are a fantastic family and keep up the hope!

Portland, OR
# Genny
Friday, November 04, 2011 3:41 PM
Bryan & Stow Family. I love seeing all of the updates that you give us about Bryan. Me and my family are so happy that he is progressing along good. Keep up the good works. You have a lot of people supporting you and cheering you on with this struggle that you are going threw. Keep it up.

Clovis, Ca

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March 31, 2014 - 3 years..
Bryan and family: I think of Bryan often as I work for the County of Santa Clara and conduct first-aid training for my Dept. with a former paramedic that knew Bryon and I have the upmost respect and admiration for paramedics as they are true unsung heroes everyday. I always wonder if Bryan may have helped me on a medical call in the past. I attended the AMR BBQ and bought a few shirts and a hat and they are wearing out! I always wear them at Giants games and I always get a thumbs up from fans when they see the shirt. Where can I buy more shirts and direct others to buy that would go to Bryans fund?

Friend in the field, Marc
February 14, 2014
Hello Bryan, I met you today, and while you have never known me, I have followed your valiant journey and feel I know you. You are the same age as my son, so I feel a personal connection. You are as handsome in person as many posts say, and it was wonderful seeing you out and about. Please know you are, and have been, in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you continued success in your challenging recovery. You are an inspiration to so many, and while it may be difficult for you to see, you are a gift to not only your wonderful family, but to those who have never met you--but care so deeply for you.
March 31, 2014 - 3 years..
Hey Bryan, we're all proud of you for being such a fighter and survivor. We know this has been profoundly difficult for you and your family. I think you and your family are amazing people. This is just a short note to tell you that you guys are often on my mind. Oh and Bryan if you're wondering how I know you, that's easy - you're the world famous Mr. Bryan Stow! As always, my thanks to the Stow family for providing this update.
March 31, 2014 - 3 years..
Got a gift for nephew...à signed bat and photo from 1954 NY Giants. Signed by Dusty Rhodes. His son, Jim Rhodes, is one of the founding members of Vietnam Combat Veterans, Ltd. Love you Bryan.. Uncle John
March 31, 2014 - 3 years..
Dear Bryan and Family - I wish you and your family all the very best in the world. I hope you continue to progress and gain strength and happiness and joy in your life. May you and your family always be blessed and find love and comfort and support.

With much love and prayers, and God Bless,

February 14, 2014
Hi Bryan, just stopping by to say hello and to let you know that I read most of your website yesterday about your injury and the strength, courage, and patience you have shown during your recovery. You have a great team of "cheerleaders" with your many friends and family and their love for you is so easy to see. I will be thinking about you and sending prayers to God above to strengthen you both physically and spiritually. Remember that He is the greatest Healer and His love for you knows no end.
March 31, 2014 - 3 years..
To Bryan and Family, sending all of you a giant hug and so much love. God is definitely cheering all of you on, too. From here on earth, please always remember that so very many people are, too. I'm no longer a MLB fan but will always be a fan of team Stow. Peace and love. God Bless.
March 31, 2014 - 3 years..
To Bryan and family: Your strength in the face of adversity is remarkable. Best of luck to you all!
March 31, 2014 - 3 years..
Hi Bryan and family,

This long time Red Sox fan has been following your story, and recovery, from the beginning, and wish you all the best. Thank you for the inspiration you and your family have provided.

Hang tough! You are in the thoughts of so many.

Steve Conley

February 14, 2014

I know another opening day will never go by, without thinking of you and your family, and I do think of you and your family often. Being a fellow Giants fan myself, an EMT in Oregon, and our birthdays only 16 days apart (same year too!) that you are a true inspiration to me, and I send you best wishes and prayers to you Bryan. I have told my wife and two daughters about you, and we look no further for a hero. Stay strong Bryan!! Go Giants!!
February 14, 2014
To Bryan and all the wonderful Stow family. All of you folks are in our prayers!Been following the updates since all of this happened! May all the strength be with you Bryan, and to your wonderful family! Keep going strong and all of the positive forever happy thoughts!! God bless you all.. :) ♥
February 14, 2014
With love and prayers. I think of you and your family often.
February 14, 2014
Hi Bryan and family ! Keep positive, and keep that sense of humor going. A belated Happy Birthday to you, Bryan. I hope you got to do something fun. I know it probably does seem strange to you to be getting messages and cards from people you have never met. You have touched many, and we care so much, we want to reach out to you and your family, to send love, prayers, and support to each and every one of you. It may have been 3 years, but none of you are forgotten. May God continue to give you the strength you need, the will power to continue in your therapy, the quiet restful time when you need it, and to always be surrounded by love. Blessings to all of you.
February 14, 2014
I understand that today marks the 3rd anniversary of Bryan's attack, and I'm sure that every day that has followed has been one of mixed blessings and emotions. I just wanted to pause a moment to send you best wishes and love from North Carolina, and to assure you that prayers are still forthcoming on the behalf of each of you there. I hope you never feel forgotten by those of us who have followed Bryan's progress. We always appreciate the updates, as well. Godspeed!!

Libbie Adams